I've been thinking a lot this week about all the awesome friends I have. In real life and online.
When I moved to Melbourne eleven years ago, I didn't know anyone apart from my hubby {then boyfriend} and his friends of course. And I found it really hard to make friends, not because I didn't want to, I just didn't really know how and I just didn't really put myself out there. The friends I made at work were limited because of the industry I'm in and were a lot older than me, not that matters, it's just not the same.
What I've learnt over the last few years, it's much better to have a few close friends than to be surrounded by an abundance of people you don't really like. The few friends I made in that time I hold close to my heart.
But something has changed in the last year, I don't know if its me or that I have had children now, I'm not sure, but I feel confident, I feel more comfortable in myself. I'm not the shy 17 year old anymore, I say hello and chat to other mums, I say what I think and voice my opinion {possibly a little too much}.
One thing I do know is that blogging has played a part, it has been a place for me to get my thoughts down, to read, write and connect. It has helped me find myself as well as find other like minded people. I have met so many amazing women, a few I am lucky enough to see often and consider to be good friends.
And now I can see I am reaping the benefits. I am more social than ever, busier than ever before. And its not just me who benefits its the little ones too, so many of my friends have gorgeous kiddies whom my children adore and love spending time with, as do I.
It's like having my own community, if I need help or advice it's there. And I am so grateful.
Happy weekend my friends!
xx
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Maxabella, what are you grateful for this week?